Sunday Sep 6, 2009
11:00 AM - 1:00 PM MDT
Sept. 9, 11am to 1pm, also continues same time on Sept. 16th, and 23rd. 6 hours total, three separate sessions, 2 hours each.
Golden Visitors Center, 1010 Washington Ave., Ste 200
$125
Ruth Rinehart, 303-278-8136.
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Transformation for Divorced Parents Creating Peace in a Conflicted World This course is designed to empower and inspire you to be an extraordinary co-parent regardless of obstacles and circumstances before you. It is engineered to support you in interrupting old patterns of speaking, thinking, and acting that limit you in being an effective communicator and partner. It is also for the purpose of teaching you practical tools to reduce the conflict in your life, with your co-parent, your child, everyone you are in relationship with. In the course, you will learn about: * the damage that conflict between parents causes the children * the new "business relationship" that will help you co-parent most effectively * tools and techniques for understanding anger and reducing it * how perceptions differ, and how this can benefit you in your life * meditation and its many benefits * how important your own self-care is, and you will be encouraged to avail yourself of it * relevant social psychology concepts that affect you at a deep level; you will learn different responses to day-to-day situations that bring you more in alignment with your own values and integrity your great power and ability to affect the circumstances in your life * Trust: you will how making the decision to Trust will change your world, create better actions, and call the best out of you effective communication techniques to reduce conflict and anger * how to trust yourself as a parent. This will bring peace and stability into your life and the lives of your children. * how a "good enough" parent is just that, good enough! And since most parents are not abusive, they are good enough. You will learn how to step back from that co-parent's relationship with the child. that many parents fight for the "best" for their children, without realizing the the conflict involved means the children lose, no matter what the fight is about. * supporting the other co-parent's household, instead of undermining it * internal boundaries, and how to keep them intact * your ability to change your neural pathways, leaving behind the pathways that are stuck in resentment and anger, and building new pathways to peace * the natural resiliency of children and their ability to navigate two households * the importance of trusting your child * natural responses to loss, and age-appropriate responses to divorce * managing your own fear regarding your child, and how important that is to maintaining an open relationship with them as they age into adulthood * the co-creative process to help your child to launch herself/himself successfully into adult * how your own thoughts help to create your own reality * resources to help you along your parenting journey The course will be lead by Ruth Rinehart, founder and president of Three Trusts, Inc., a resource for divorced parents and conflict transformation. For more information, see the website: www.threetrusts.com. Ruth is available at ruth?at?threetrusts.com or 720.290.5715. You can find her on LinkedIn (ruth"at"threetrusts.com) and Facebook (ruth.rinehart"at"gmail.com) as well. "The idea behind 'Trust the other parent to be "good enough"' has been inspirational in my family's and my healing. It gives me great relief during times when I start to wonder and worry about whether or not my son's father is an adequate parent. I don't have to worry about it, because he truly is "good enough." I don't have to carry the burden of judging anyone else. I can focus more clearly now on being the best parent and friend that I can be for my son. Thanks again, Ruth for introducing me to that concept. My load is lighter now." from a parent who has taken the Three Trusts workshop This online workshop meets for 6 hours: on this Wednessday, September 6th, from 11am to 1pm, then again on Wednesday, Sept. 16th, and concluding on Wednesday, Sept. 23rd). The cost of the course is $125. This course is for parents who are raising children with another parent in another home --- whether or not you were married, are now just separating, or have been co-parenting for many years. It would also be beneficial for grandparents who find themselves in conflict with the parents of their grandchildren. It is designed to impact your cooperative co-parenting skills and options in a positive way whether any of the people you co-parent with ever take the course. In fact, the course is designed to work with one parent at a time. Co- parents should take separate classes. How to Register: Online at http://www.threetrusts.com/store/product_info.php?cPath=22&products_id=34.
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